I'm a nymphomaniac, and I am not ashamed of this fact or the taboo associated with it. But being a nymphomaniac comes with its own set of challenges and obstacles. If you are like me, you have probably faced many difficulties in your life because of it (or maybe because of society). Luckily, it's never too late to change things for the better! In this article series, I will be going over some basic tips about how to live as an active nymphomaniac and overcome any obstacles that arise from being a nympho. These tips aren't limited to people who identify as active nymphomaniacs either: they can also help anyone who wants more sex in their life!
Always keep in mind that it is OKAY to be a nymphomaniac.
As a nymphomaniac, it's important to remember that it's okay to be who you are. You can be open about your sexuality and talk about sex with your partner(s) without feeling ashamed or uncomfortable. It's also important for you to have other people in your life who support your nymphomania--friends and family members that will listen when things get rough or want to talk about the latest episode of Game of Thrones.
Don't be afraid to let your partner know that you want more sex.
Talking about sex with your partner can be a scary thing, but it's important for both of you to feel comfortable enough in the relationship for them to talk about what they want out of their sex life. Don't be afraid to ask for what you want; make sure you give them room to speak up! There are many ways this can happen: You could write down some things on paper or say them out loud while having sex; maybe even use props like a blindfold or handcuffs (but don't forget the lube). If there's something specific on your mind, now is not the time to be shy!
Remember, just because you talk about sex often doesn't mean you want to sleep with everyone.
Remember, just because you talk about sex often and openly doesn't mean you want to sleep with everyone. Most people who identify as nymphomaniacs are more selective about whom they have sex with (or at least more open-minded).
Some might say that this is because we are "addicted" or "obsessed" with sex--which isn't wrong--, but I think it's also because we know what we like and what feels good for us! We're not afraid to ask for what we need or talk about it, which is part of our sexual well-being!
Appreciate your body.
Your body is a temple, and you should treat it as such. You might think that this sounds like something your grandmother would say. Still, when it comes to nymphomania--a taboo to characterize it as a disorder caused by excessive sexual desire and activity--you'll want to pay attention.
Nymphomaniacs tend not only to enjoy sex but also seek out new experiences in bed; they're often adventurous in their lovemaking and don't shy away from trying new things. Many don't always appreciate their bodies enough or learn how best to use them during sex (or masturbation). If you've been struggling with negative body image issues because of your nymphomania diagnosis, check out our other articles on learning to appreciate yourself more fully!
Practice safe sex.
The most important thing to remember when you're having sex is to be safe. That means using condoms and lube, being careful with your toys, and being careful with the people you are having sex with to prevent getting an STD.
The most common STIs are chlamydia, gonorrhea, herpes simplex virus (HSV) 1 & 2 (oral herpes), human papillomavirus (HPV), hepatitis B virus (HBV) infection, syphilis; trichomoniasis; genital warts caused by HPV types 6 & 11. The CDC estimates that about 20 million new STIs occur annually in the United States.
Masturbate as often as you feel like it.
Masturbation is a wonderful way to get in touch with yourself physically and emotionally, which means it can help improve your relationship with yourself and others around you, no matter where they fall on the spectrum of sexuality or gender identity
Masturbation is the safest way to enjoy sex and is a great way to learn about your body and what you like. It's important to know that masturbation is normal, healthy, and fun!
No matter what you're into, masturbation can help you feel more confident in bed. It also allows you to explore different types of pleasure and find out what feels best for YOU.
Don't get jealous when your partner has sex with another person (if they are not cheating).
Don't get jealous. The key to a happy nympho life is not to be jealous when your partner has sex with another person (if they are not cheating).
If you find that jealousy is getting in the way of enjoying their other adventures, talk about it! Tell them how you feel and what would make things better for you. They will appreciate your honesty and openness and will probably be more willing to accommodate any requests or boundaries that come up along the way.
Get all the facts straight.
It's important to get all the facts straight. Before you start living life as an active nymphomaniac, it's best to ensure you know what is happening. You don't want to end up hurting yourself or others because of misunderstanding or misinformation. Here are some things you should consider before getting involved:
- Were there any diseases in your past? If so, have they been treated? Do they still need treatment?
- Do I know how my partner feels about me and our relationship (or potential relationship)? Am I ready for what he/she wants from me sexually or emotionally? Can he/she handle it if I say no sometimes? Will he/she be upset if I ask him/her for certain things in bed--and does this matter anyway since we're both adults who can say no whenever we want without feeling guilty about it!
Become sexually comfortable around your partner and their partner(s).
It cannot be easy to be intimate with someone when you don't know them very well. You will have to find ways of becoming comfortable enough with them so that the sex itself is not awkward or embarrassing. This may mean talking about what you want, what they want, and how you feel about certain things in bed. Make sure that both people are on the same page before moving forward with anything physical; otherwise, it could cause problems later down the road!
The best way for me (and most nymphomaniacs) was to get over myself and do it! I've always had an issue with being naked around others. Still, once I just let go of my reservations, everything became easier from there on out because now we could communicate openly about our desires/fantasies, etc., which made things much less stressful overall."
Make sure to practice safe sex, get all the facts straight, and don't get jealous!
- Always practice safe sex, get all the facts straight, and don't get jealous!
- Make sure that you are using protection for each and every sexual encounter. This is important! You cannot get pregnant if you use protection correctly. If the man does not wear a condom during sex, he can spread STDs to you, such as chlamydia or herpes (example).
- Get all the facts straight before having sex with someone new. For example: Have they ever been tested for STDs? What kind of relationship do they want from this encounter? Do not rush into things just because it feels good at first glance. It would be best if you always thought about the consequences later down the road when things might start going wrong between two people who were once close friends. When things seem distant due to drama caused by cheating partners who didn't think ahead before making decisions regarding their sexual behaviors...
- Ask him or her to get tested for STDs before having sex with them. It's perfectly okay to request this in any relationship you are starting and for the other party to do the same.
Conclusion
Keep in mind that it is OKAY to be a nymphomaniac. Don't be afraid to let your partner know that you want more sex! Remember, just because you talk about sex often doesn't mean you want to sleep with everyone. Practice safe sex, get all the facts straight, and don't get jealous!
