In the quiet corners of a man’s mind, there is often a nagging voice that whispers questions about adequacy. We don’t talk about it at the bar, and we certainly don’t bring it up during a Sunday morning workout.

There is a specific kind of silence that exists in a locker room or a shared shower—a quiet, competitive tension that most men never speak about but every man understands. It is the silent inventory.

Men rarely talk openly about penis size—not with friends, not with their health care providers, and certainly not with strangers. Yet it remains one of the most common sources of private insecurity men carry into adulthood. For many, it’s not actually about inches. It’s about what size…