There is a specific kind of silence that exists in the locker rooms, hunting lodges, and bars where men congregate. It’s not an empty silence; it’s a heavy one. We talk about the torque of a new engine, the failure of a secondary defense, the rising cost of ammunition, or the shifting geopolitical…

Men tend to treat their bodies—especially their genitals—the same way they treat a car engine: keep it running, don’t ask too many questions, and only get worried when smoke appears. It’s understandable. The penis is tied to far more than biology. It’s connected to confidence, identity,…